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Aundi Kolber

Aundi Kolber

Podcasts

You can find me at various podcasts by clicking on the links below:

Typology with Ian Morgan Cron

Coffee + Crumbs- Motherhood and Trauma

The Lazy Genius with Kendra Adachi

The Next Right Thing with Emily P. Freeman

At Sea with Justin McRoberts

When We Speak with Tasha Hunter

The Healing Trauma Podcast

Enneagram and Marriage

Your Enneagram Coach Podcast

That Sounds Fun with Annie F. Downs

The Faith and Healing Podcast

Our Island In The City Podcast

Craft and Character with Steve Carter

Go and Tell Gals with Jess Connolly

An Interview with Morgan Harper Nichols

Staying The Course Podcast

Restoring the Soul Interview, Part I

Restoring the Soul Interview, Part II

Restoring the Soul, Healing Trauma: Getting Unstuck and Becoming Whole Part I

Restoring the Soul, Healing Trauma: Getting Unstuck and Becoming Whole Part II

Cultivated with Mike Cosper

Let’s Be Real with Nicole Unice

Unhurried Living Podcast

The Homecoming Podcast with Dr. Thema

The Faith and Mental Wellness Podcast with Brittney Moses

The Puddcast with Jonathan Puddle

The Complicated Heart Podcast (EMDR)

Still Becoming with Monica DiCristina

Dear Daughters with Susie Davis

CXMH Podcast (trauma & attachment)

CXMH Podcast (Grief)

Nothing is Wasted Podcast

Fierce and Lovely

otherWISE with Casey Tygrett

Moms Struggling Well

The Crystal Paine Show

The Revelation Wellness Show

The Presence Project

This Good Word, Ep 153

This Good Word, Ep 214

Faith and Feminism, Ep 25

Faith and Feminism, Ep 68

Noises from the Attic , Ep 17

Noises from the Attic , Ep 41

Hope for the Lonely Podcast

She Walks In Truth with Carrie Robaina

Faith Conversations

Poema Podcast (Try Softer)

Poema Podcast (Grief)

Live it Well

Impossible Beauty

all shall be well

Kindled Podcast

Finding Holy with Ashley Hales

Changing Faith with Michael Hidalgo

Upside Down Podcast: Episode 36

Upside Down Podcast: Episode 44

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Leaving this blessing here // take what you need.🫶 Leaving this blessing here // take what you need.🫶🏻#PrayersOfATraumaSurvivor 
#trysofter #stronglikewater #beloved #loveyourneighborasyourself
Relational trauma & abuse often teaches us that we Relational trauma & abuse often teaches us that we can either choose authenticity or belonging—but not both. In these dynamics, folks often learn they must hyperattune, overaccomodate, overfunction and/or walk on eggshells to remain in relationships. We do this to stay connected to harmful caregivers, primary relationships and/or to exist in systems we depend on for survival; and this makes sense. Sometimes we have to do whatever is necessary to survive. 
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As Dr. Gabor Mate writes, “People have two needs: Attachment and authenticity. And when authenticity threatens attachment; attachment trumps authenticity.”
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The consequence of having to disown and leave ourselves are profound—and yet, we can learn to find the way home to our God-given, resilient, fragile and Beloved selves. May it be so. #trysofter #stronglikewater #beloved #fawning #cptsd
A blessing of sorts for you today. As always, take A blessing of sorts for you today. As always, take what you need. 
#trysofter #stronglikewater #cptsd #selfcompassion #healanyway
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An ongoing shout out to Dr. Kristin Neff for her work around self-compassion. 🫶🏻
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IC: hand over heart // May you interrupt shame with self-compassion
Sometimes poetry (such as from the legendary Mary Sometimes poetry (such as from the legendary Mary Oliver), helps capture truth in a way psychology struggles to fully articulate. The reality of what it feels like to thaw the pain we hold can be difficult to put words to, but this from Mary has been so meaningful to me:
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“We shake with joy,
we shake with grief.
What a time they have, these two
housed as they are in the same body.”
-Mary Oliver, We Shake With Joy
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Sending love.🌿
#trysofter #stronglikewater #takewhatyouneed #traumaresolution #cptsd
Me. Him. 19 years of marriage. I have such profoun Me. Him. 19 years of marriage. I have such profound gratitude for our love and the life, God helping us, we’ve created. Sometimes, against all odds. 
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But here we are, still choosing each other; choosing us. The goodness of God in the land of the living.
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Thank you for all the ways you’ve helped me find home again, B. Happy anniversary, my love. @bckolber
#trysofter #stronglikewater
Not me geeking out because my words are on @insigh Not me geeking out because my words are on @insighttimer today (just kidding, I’m totally geeking out 🙃🥹)
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Fun fact, Insight Timer has been a huge resource in my personal work toward self-compassion and mindfulness, particularly practices with Sarah Blondin.
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Thanks @stephpoe1 & @hkoxhandler for making sure I didn’t miss it ✨🫶🏻✨
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And thanks @insighttimer for the shout out.🌿
#trysofter #stronglikewater #insighttimer #cptsd #trauma
In case no one’s ever told you: I honor what it co In case no one’s ever told you: I honor what it cost you to know what you know.❤️‍🔥❤️‍🩹
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May your healing come.🌿
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#trysofter #stronglikewater #beloved #traumaresolution #cptsd
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