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Aundi Kolber

Aundi Kolber

November 10, 2016 ·

A Post Election Prayer for Weary Hearts

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God of the broken, physician to the sick, redeemer of the destitute:

Give us courage to show up to our right now life.  

Would you calm the vitriol and fear and pride which so easily draws us in, and give us wisdom to care for our soul?

Lord, would you help us to remember to love our neighbors well? 

Would you help us to do justice, love mercy, and walk humbly?  

Oh that we would seek to understand those who are different than us. 

May we choose each other’s humanity over rightness. 

Healer, please cause us to look into eyes instead of screens; into hearts instead of ideologies. 

Lord, would you replace our self righteousness with curiosity, our fury with steadfastness? 

May we choose mercy over judgement. 

May we choose kindness over shame.

May we listen to each other’s stories and find hope in our common journey and insight in our differences. 

May we know the limits of our own hearts and know when to step back–realizing it’s better to withhold our opinion if it means saving a spirit. 

Jesus, may we experience you as our shield in the midst of arrows of condemnation that wish to knock us down.

May we be reminded of how desperately we need you; that we would forgive others as we ourselves have been forgiven.  

May we love as you love, in order to create a road forward.

May we, in the midst of turmoil, cling to the Rock that is higher.

Oh God, we pray, meet us here. 

 

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Relational trauma & abuse often teaches us that we Relational trauma & abuse often teaches us that we can either choose authenticity or belonging—but not both. In these dynamics, folks often learn they must hyperattune, overaccomodate, overfunction and/or walk on eggshells to remain in relationships. We do this to stay connected to harmful caregivers, primary relationships and/or to exist in systems we depend on for survival; and this makes sense. Sometimes we have to do whatever is necessary to survive. 
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A blessing of sorts for you today. As always, take A blessing of sorts for you today. As always, take what you need. 
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IC: hand over heart // May you interrupt shame with self-compassion
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“We shake with joy,
we shake with grief.
What a time they have, these two
housed as they are in the same body.”
-Mary Oliver, We Shake With Joy
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In case no one’s ever told you: I honor what it co In case no one’s ever told you: I honor what it cost you to know what you know.❤️‍🔥❤️‍🩹
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May your healing come.🌿
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